The Definitive Locktober FAQ: All Your Questions Answered

Considering the Locktober challenge? It’s natural to have questions, whether they’re about a medical emergency or simply how to stay clean. A successful month of chastity requires not only discipline but also information and preparation. This guide answers every question you might have to help you get ready for a confident and rewarding month of denial.

Understanding the Basics

Q: What is Locktober?
A: Locktober is a month-long, informal chastity challenge. Participants, most often in the BDSM community, wear a chastity device for the entire month of October. The main goal is to deny yourself the pleasure of an orgasm for 31 days. This is a test of self-control and discipline, often for personal growth or as a shared experience within the community.

Q: Why do people do Locktober?
A: People participate in Locktober for many reasons. Many see it as a personal test of their discipline and willpower. It’s a way to explore feelings of submission and control in a structured, time-limited way. If you have a Keyholder, it’s a profound act of trust and submission that strengthens your D/s relationship. For others, it’s a fun and exciting shared challenge within the community, offering a sense of camaraderie and support.

Q: Is Locktober only for Sissies?
A: While the Locktober challenge is a beloved tradition in the sissy community, it’s not exclusive to us! Locktober is for anyone who loves chastity and wants to test their self-control. Sissies, of course, embrace the challenge as a chance to celebrate their submissive side and focus on their training. However, everyone from dominant partners to curious couples can and do participate. Ultimately, it’s about a shared journey of discipline, denial, and finding pleasure in being caged.

Planning Your Challenge

Q: How do I prepare for Locktober?
A: Preparation is key for a successful Locktober. First, choose a comfortable, secure chastity cage and test it before October begins. You can explore a variety of materials, from a comfortable silicone cage to a more durable stainless steel cage. Mentally prepare by committing to your personal goals and setting clear rules if you have a partner. Join online communities for support and to get tips from experienced participants.

Q: What is the best chastity cage for a beginner?
A: While many beginners are tempted to start with a cheap cage, the best approach is to invest in a good-quality device from the beginning. A well-designed, high-quality cage made from a body-safe material like medical-grade silicone or polished stainless steel gives you superior comfort, a more secure fit, and greater durability. This ensures you can wear the cage for longer periods without discomfort, making your first Locktober a much more enjoyable and successful experience.

Q: How do I choose the right size?
A: Getting the size right is the single most important factor for comfort. You need to measure two things: the ring diameter and the cage length. The ring should be snug enough to prevent slipping but loose enough that it doesn’t pinch or cut off circulation. For the cage, measure your penis in its softest state—it should be slightly shorter than your flaccid length to prevent it from growing. Always be honest with your measurements!

Choosing Your Materials

Q: What are the different types of materials?
A: Chastity cages come in a variety of materials, each with its own benefits:

Silicone: This material is extremely flexible, comfortable for long-term wear, and lightweight. It’s great for beginners. Check out our Chastity Cock Cage Silicone S with lock.
Acrylic: A clear, lightweight, and durable material that people often choose for a discreet, invisible look. An example is the Hidden Desire | Chastity Electro Cock Cage.
Stainless Steel: This material is heavier and more durable, giving you a strong sense of security and submission. It’s excellent for long-term use and provides a realistic sense of being “locked.” See our Mr. Steel | Master Chastity Cock Cage.

Managing Your Experience

Q: Can I wear a chastity cage for a long time?
A: Yes, you can wear a chastity cage for a challenge like Locktober. With the right fit and proper hygiene, you can wear a chastity cage for the entire 31-day duration of the challenge and even longer. The key is to listen to your body and ensure daily cleaning to prevent irritation and infection. If you choose a high-quality device and prepare properly, a month of chastity is very achievable.

Q: Can I still have a sissygasm while locked?
A: Yes, you can. Whether or not you are allowed to have a sissygasm, however, depends entirely on the rules you create with your Keyholder. Some people agree that no cumming is allowed for the whole month, while others may allow it as a form of managed release.

Q: How do I clean my chastity cage?
A: You can easily clean your cage while you wear it. Use a mild, unscented soap and warm water in the shower. A small brush or cotton swab can help you reach all the areas of the cage and the skin underneath. Make sure to rinse everything thoroughly and dry the area completely to prevent chafing.

Q: Will it hurt or cause damage?
A: A properly fitted chastity cage should not cause you pain or damage. Some minor discomfort is normal as you get used to it, but it should never be excruciating. If you experience swelling, numbness, or sharp pain, you need to remove the cage immediately. Your safety and well-being should always be your top priority.

Handling Unexpected Situations

Q: What happens if I fail Locktober?
A: There’s no universal punishment for failing Locktober unless you or your keyholder set one. The main consequence is breaking your personal commitment. If you slip, don’t see it as a failure—use it as motivation to try again. Many participants agree on fun penalties or extended lockups to keep the challenge exciting and encourage better discipline next time.

Q: Can I remove my cage during Locktober for hygiene?
A: Yes, but only under strict conditions. Long-term chastity wear requires proper cleaning to prevent discomfort or infection. If you have a keyholder, always ask for permission, and removals should be supervised if possible. Solo players can use a timed lockbox for accountability. Keep removals short and ensure the cage is secured again immediately after cleaning.

Q: Can I travel with a chastity cage?
A: It is not recommended. While some individuals may attempt it, the consensus within the community is that the risks of getting stopped and having to explain the device at airport security or other checkpoints are too high. It’s always safer to unlock before you travel and resume the challenge once you have reached your destination. Your discretion and peace of mind are the top priority.

Q: What about emergencies?
A: Always have a plan for emergencies. Your health and safety should be your top priority. Make sure your Keyholder is accessible or that you have a backup plan. A common method is to have a spare key locked in a timed lockbox that you can open in case of a true emergency. Always have a method for quick and safe removal on hand.

Q: Can I use a chastity cage during sex?
A: Yes, many people use chastity cages during sex. The cage can allow for other forms of intimacy, such as oral sex or manual stimulation, while preventing penetration. For many couples, a chastity cage enhances pleasure for both parties, as the person wearing the cage experiences intense denial while the Keyholder or partner enjoys full control.